
In this interesting article the subject of masculinity in the church is broached. But is this the right approach? In my opinion, some level of over-compensation toward the masculine is necessary in our times but the methods utilized here go too far. In their zeal to create a manly church they instead reduplicate the lodges (Elks, Shriners, etc.) of the last century which were an escape from church.
At the church I pastor, St. Andrew’s Community Church, our parishioner base is 54% male and 46% female. I believe that if you have lots of manly men the women will follow. We are a masculine church but we are unapologetically a church. We sing hymns, we recite creeds, we take the Lord’s Supper together but we do it in the knowledge that we are united to and served by the great warrior king, Jesus.
A Warrior King. I think the church has long allowed this back-story (which is really The Story) go untold. Like a great ode from days of old we don’t convey the chronicle of a great king who comes to do battle to liberate his people from their enemies. Jesus came to do battle. That was the problem the Jews of first century Israel had with this messiah, he didn’t lift a finger to harm the filthy pagan gentiles who were ruling the promised land. He didn’t begin the apocalyptic insurrection against Rome that they were waiting for. But what he did do was something far bigger.
Holy war. What we don’t see in the Gospel narratives is the fierce spiritual battles that occured constantly. Jesus fights with the devil in the wilderness and Jesus engages in hand-to-hand combat with something that would make even a battle-hardened Roman centurion tremble to his core: demons…lots of demons. Legions of demons come to Jesus and he defeats them all. The very spiritual entities that hold the entire ancient world in fear and which require the placation of false sacrifices shudder in the presence of the true King. In their grotesque multitude they cry out “What have you to do with us, O Son of God? Have you come here to torment us before the time?” They beg him to cast them into a herd of swine. In the final climactic battle, Jesus snatches profound victory from the apparent jaws of defeat at the cross. Jesus is raw masculinity personified.
So how do we convey this masculinity to our church? Well, the wrong way to do it is to turn the church into one giant tail gate party. The right way, I believe, is to act like men are there. To tell the story of the Great King and to equip them to join the huge and real war that is still raging as the Kingdom God expands to ends of the earth overcoming all foes who stand before it. This can be done in a church with a steeple, stained glass windows and a man standing in the pulpit representing King Jesus, the ultimate man.